[Falsetto]

Originally Posted by kitaek27

NO WAI

See, now I couldn't take that as real business...

[kitaek27]

Originally Posted by Falsetto

See, now I couldn't take that as real business...

A fellow member before moderator, Falsetto.

[Moofey]

Hah... if you think you've messed up big time, you haven't. You haven't messed up bad enough to have people register usernames that try to insult you. (And yes, I've had my share of banning usernames like "****Moofey" on other forums. )

Other times, it's just people hating on you because they envy the fact that you're a defender of justice for the forum. lol (But since you have a Dokuro avatar, I can safely say that if anyone causes trouble they'd end being "Excalibolg'd" up their rears. XD)

[Aorime]

As someone who's been in your shoes in the past, I offer this small advice: If you are following the guidelines given to you for what you are to do as a moderator, no one should have any problem with it. If you close a topic because you feel it violates the rules of the forum, you are fully justified to do so, and you shouldn't feel bad about it.

I served as an administrator for a fairly popular Nintendo WiFi clan back in the day, and I have had my fair share of people hating me for decisions that I have made. I have had people openly call out for me to repeal what I had done and rally almost the entire forum against me. It makes you feel like crap, makes you feel betrayed, and makes you question why you even go offer your time and energy for these people. I know the feeling, I've been there myself so many times.

As for your alliances with MabinogiWorld... I don't even see why anyone should care what other forums you go to. I've lost count of how many forums I go to, I frequent so many of them nowadays... But in the end, you are you. Being known as Kitaek27, a guy who is incredibly helpful when people have questions, is a lot better then being known as Kitaek27 the Mabiguru Moderator. If you can develop that reputation at all places you go to instead of being known and loved by one community but rejected by the others, is that really a good thing?

Pretty much, ignore the crap and go back to doing what you do best. I know I mostly just lurk around here, but I see you in a lot of the topics I read, and you are usually very quick to answer questions. (You also have an awesome taste in Anime ^^) So, lets get over this self-hate session, and get back to having a good time on the forum.

[Lyell]

tl:dr


I kid, I kid. And honestly do not believe that there's anything you should worry about, kitaek. You applied for a position and recieved it. There are those out there who're probably bitter and hold malice for you being chosen over them. Your actions will most likely be scrutinized by those individuals but you shouldn't let it get to you. However, I'm not saying to turn a blind eye to it either, which you clearly havent.

As for the question of loyalty....well, this is MabiGURU isn't it? One must have knowledge to counsel and advise. What better way to do so than to gain all of it you can?

[Tokio]

Originally Posted by kitaek27

A fellow member before moderator, Falsetto.

zomg -hugs- First time I've ever seen you use a smiling emoticon <3

[Zaikea]

I've only been a member for a short time, but I've gotten a lot of respect for you, Kitae. I've seen you on so many sites, and I'm truly astonished at how you're able to help so many people.

As far as I can tell, you're doing a great job moderating. Keep up the good work! ^_^

~Zaikea

[PetalHoney]

Hey, you personally know how I felt about everything before, and I think it's really great that you acknowledged that, and fixed the little issue by making it aware what was being posted, and where. Thats all it really needed. My one and only problem now is that all of this has really gone to your head. It makes me sad, because you used to be so fun, free spirited, and I enjoyed talking with you and reading your posts here on "the guru." I'm not saying you're no longer free spirited, and fun, because you are. Your pet peeve is misplaced forum posts, my pet peeve is people who try too hard to be something amazing. Everyone thought you were amazing before, just as everyone thought I was amazing, Paul, Tofuu, everyone. We were some of the original huge posters on the site (and Haydn *cry*). Just don't let this get to your head the way it is, I know you want to be looked up to, and you are, but you're not the only one K. (I'm sorry if this is coming off mean) I think thats where we got mixed up, I don't totally hate you, lol I don't hate you at all, it just makes me sad, and a little irritated when you let all the power, which isn't much, get to you're head. Thats all I ask to help improve

I think it's really retarded that I get banned for posting a concern I had, and I know that wasn't you K, we all know who it was. And that was really effed up. But whatever, I'll quit that now while I'm ahead. lol.

Dylan

[kitaek27]

I'm sure khenta's main warnings when I started was that I shouldn't let it get to my head.
I try, I really do, but whether it happens or not, I'm not the one who will be able to tell.

I've been far less active than I was before, mostly because I'm starting to get sick of answering the same exact questions over and over again, or just playing the role of "the mod" who needs to "set an example for the rest of the members". Someone in Nexon forums yelled at me for throwing an insult because I was an "honored member" and I shouldn't do stuff like that. I say I can insult someone if I feel need be, and I'm not going to use my status to support the claim or hold me back.

I never thought it was necessary for you to be banned. I rather would've talked it out.
I just quit my position at mmosite. I never wanted to mod there anyways, they just kinda made me do it.

I've always wanted to be someone great, but the guides I write, drawings I do, and the helping I'm trying aren't something I do for that reason, but because its a hobby of mine.

Tireku said told me once that I work too hard, but I enjoy making guides O_O

Haha, I apologize again if it irritates you that I post the same thread in several forums. Its a different group of people, and I wanted all my buddies to see it.

[Falsetto]

Originally Posted by kitaek27

I never thought it was necessary for you to be banned. I rather would've talked it out.

There is nothing I'm going to talk about if someone harasses another, and was warned about it twice.

You don't harass people, Concern does not require demeaning sentences, nor a public thread. I won't allow anyone to put down another and feel it's acceptable to go by; whether or not you cared that someone was putting you down Kita.

I want everyone to know this, because in the past things such as this have happened in MabiGuru. A little talk will turn into an argument, and that isn't what we hope when members will follow our rules. If you feel it's okay to voice your opinion while harassing someone certain, There are plenty of other places to see.

Unless he has done something legitimately wrong, I see no reason for it.

And no, I am not asking for an argument now, I am stating this. I want you to know why I did what I did.